Shamika Jones’ son was the greatest present she had ever received. He was also her first major challenge.
Three days before she turned 16, Jones gave birth to Ennis Rakestraw Jr. He arrived early, born weighing less than six pounds. Doctors warned Jones about potential learning issues and breathing difficulties from underdeveloped lungs. He spent nine days in the ICU with pneumonia.
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