New Haven recently ranked as one of the worst cities in the country to date, according to a survey by Apartment List. With more people looking for love with a swipe or a click, it can be tricky to find the best and most safe dating apps. 

The Better Business Bureau says there are some tips to find the right fit, but no one service is foolproof. 

“The first step in finding what dating app or service is right for you is really figuring out what you want,” Spokesperson for BBB, Luke Frey said.  “Are you looking for a more long-term relationship or are you trying to find something more casual more short term?” 

They recommend doing your research ahead of time. 

“See what each of these sites are really able to offer you, see if it’s a site that known to help you find a soul mate or an app that’s known more as a hookup app,” Frey added. 

Depending on whether you’re looking for something serious or more casual, it can be worth it to spend a little bit on dating services or apps. 

“Sometimes it is worth your money to pay just a little bit for a premium site or service if you are trying to find someone long term,” Frey continued. 

Experts also recommend you ask trusted friends what sites or apps they have used with success or would encourage you to steer clear from. Some sites also offer free trials so you can get a good feel for the types of people you’ll come across. 

Always meet someone for the first time in a well-lit public place and let a trusted friend or family member know where you’ll be and when. 

“Keep in mind when choosing to meet someone, they are complete strangers even if you’ve talked to them for months on end,” Frey said.  

Austin, TX ranked number one for dating in the same Apartment List survery.  Along with New Haven, Providence, RI and Worchester, MA ranked among the worst.